Rebuilding Trust

“The mind is like water. When it’s turbulent, it’s difficult to see. When it’s calm, everything becomes clear. ” — Mahes Prasad The Struggle to Trust Again Coming out of an abusive relationship—whether emotional, mental, or physical—leaves deep wounds that don’t simply heal with time. One of the most profound and lasting effects is the complete erosion of […]

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly of Post-Divorce Motherhood

The “Opportunity” of Solo Parenting Well, folks, let me tell ya, nothing screams “personal growth opportunity,” like a recent divorce and the joyous task of solo parenting two teenagers. If you’re imagining quiet family dinners and peaceful Sunday mornings, you’re either delusional or heavily medicated. The good news? I’m still standing, and so are the […]

I didn’t know how to be supportive…

About 4-5 years ago, KMM went to the Dover Skating Center for a week of summer camp. And ever since then, she has been on the Delaware Skating Academy’s artistic roller skating team. Since the day she became a member of the team, she has dreamed of competing in a roller skating competition. That dream […]

Great Things Await…

Over twenty five years ago I started the Wesley College chapter of my life as a college freshman. It’s hard to imagine that I have spent nearly half of my lifetime all at one place; that place being Wesley College. People joke around about having second homes, the gym or their job, but the truth […]

trouble getting started…

A year ago, I broke my foot and was determined more than ever to not let KEM, my Philly Team Challenge family, or myself down and run the Vegas Half Marathon anyway in honor of KEM and his fight against Crohn’s Disease (the race was just 3 weeks after breaking up with that boot/cast).  And while […]

COVID holidays…

Earlier this week I found myself in a very silly text conversation with my mom and sister. I started the conversation off with a random text to both of them saying, “soooo Kevin and I don’t know how to do Thanksgiving. We’ve never not traveled…” My sister responded, “as in you don’t know how to […]

how did I get here???

When I sit down with a student, I find myself asking questions that I think will help us both ‘right the ship so to speak’.  Some questions I ask are “How do you think you got here”?; “What specifically happened or contributed to your current situation”?; “What are some steps you can take to BETTER […]